Let me tell you a funny story.

There once was a boy named Alan. Alan is no regular guy, he had a gift - he was a natural chick magnet. How does he do it? Well, he usually doesn't target a single lady. No, he'd approach a whole group of them at once to increase his chances. He knows when to talk and when to shut up. As always, when approaching a bunch of girls, he will keep quiet, be gentle, listen more and let them do the talking. So if it isn't his charisma that is so attractive, what draws the ladies? His secret is FOOD! He will cleverly treat all the ladies in the room until they are so intrigued they end up wanting to find out who is this generous person. This generosity is attractive, they want more!
So how does Alan handle a whole group of ladies? Isn't that too overwhelming? Well, he keeps them at arm's length always. And when they get too close or too boring, he'd show his true colours and scare them away!

Confusing? See the pics below! ;)



P.s. This is a fictional story and Alan is not based on a specific person. The photos are merely illustrative. =)

My dears, how were ur hols? Mine went by quite quickly. I have a few pretty/funny pictures I thought I'd share some. =)




Sem 2 is here. Gear up! Full steam ahead! I know it looks daunting but day by day we will make the most of it.

Weather is quite wet these days, do take care of yourself. Sleep regularly, eat healthily and properly, exercise for energy and take mental breaks with a funny youtube clip or a short walk around the block.

Hya hya hya! =D

Do you think the internet has allowed for excessive exhibitionism and voyuerism?
I honestly admire those few who can still resist the pull of facebook.

Sadly, my blog hasn't been what I'd wanted for it this year. I was hoping it would be uplifting and encouraging to readers. I guess I myself have been going through rough patches.

But there is a God above all... =)

Jia you to all of us ending holidays and beginning school again! Gambatte! =)

I always always lose steam when holidays roll by. During those hectic days, out of necessity, you'd see me in energiser bunny mode on crack. During holidays, energiser bunny discovered sleeping pills instead. Haha.

I actually have all my assignments and schedules for next semester already. I already can feel the nervous dread of the crazy workload amount. Why is the jump from sem 1 to sem 2 like to the other side of the Grand Canyon.

I find it odd that sometimes I can be so motivated, and other times I just wanna bum around. I find that writing down what I need to do helps me not to procrastinate. Yes, I'm a list-person. Haha. Masterplan ;)

Still, I had a great holidays. Thanks to the two people who visited me. Love you both lots lots! Miss u both lots lots! =D

I just remembered why I don't watch korean dramas, or listen to love songs, or watch sappy movies.

These few weeks of holidays have been the best. I couldn't have asked for better.

You can have the life you want

I have a masterplan. Tonight, tomorrow, next week, next sem, end of this year, 3 years down, 5 years down, 7 years down. It's all in my plan.

Do you think that when we are sad we need to just let-it-go or get-it-out once and for all so we can move on?
I don't think so actually.I find that even after letting-it-out you settle into this unspoken sorrow. The type that just hangs over you. Long and silent. There's no immediately getting better after that. So instant back to normal. This heavy heavy sorrow that follows you. Somehow you cant cry anymore. Tears are emotions of the moment, this is not a momentary sadness, this lingers. Then suddenly unsuspectingly, small little things trigger a sudden wave of intense feelings. The brochure of the trip we took together, the ducks at river torrens, the footy on tv.
='(

='( I can't seem to get out of it

I wouldnt advise anyone to get in a long distance relationship. I think its sad when there's this one special I most want to be with and yet I cant. Sighs.

I find living on my own out here really makes me more focus, more compartmentalised, more stoic, stronger.

Emo =(